How to Improve your Self-Esteem

1. Stop comparing yourself to others.

2. Stop putting yourself down, and attacking yourself with your own thoughts and words.

3. Don’t reject compliments. Instead of automatically brushing them off, recognise that what has been said is true.

4. Deliberately affirm yourself throughout the day with positive statements like “I am a valuable person; I am unique and have talents and gifts; I am likeable and loveable.”

5. Surround yourself with positive people who can see, and affirm, your worth and value. At the same time, avoid critical and negative people who get a kick out of putting others down.

6. Make a list of the goals you have achieved, and your minor and major successes in life.

7.  Make a list of your top 10 traits and remind yourself of these important qualities.

8. Be true to yourself. It’s important that you live an authentic life and be the person you were meant to be. Don’t try to be a replica of anybody else. You have so much to offer – so always be yourself.

1. Stop comparing yourself to others.

2. Stop putting yourself down, and attacking yourself with your own thoughts and words.

3. Don’t reject compliments. Instead of automatically brushing them off, recognize that what has been said is true.

4. Deliberately affirm yourself throughout the day with positive statements like “I am a valuable person; I am unique and have talents and gifts; I am likable and lovable.”

5. Surround yourself with positive people who can see, and affirm, your worth and value. At the same time, avoid critical and negative people who get a kick out of putting others down.

6. Make a list of the goals you have achieved, and your minor and major successes in life.

7.  Make a list of your top 10 traits and remind yourself of these important qualities.

8. Be true to yourself. It’s important that you live an authentic life and be the person you were meant to be. Don’t try to be a replica of anybody else. You have so much to offer – so always be yourself.

A message from Anonymous


YOU ARE LOVED YOU BIG DUMMY! I may not count but I don't care because I love you anyway. And so do many others.

You don’t count? Why wouldn’t you? Everyone matters! 

dasenergi:

I am desperate to just really connect with one other person.

dasenergi:

I am desperate to just really connect with one other person.

Everything is energy.

Everything is energy.

dasenergi:

“Blessed are the weird people — poets, misfits, writers, mystics, painters, troubadours — for the teach us to see the world through different eyes.” Jacob Nordby

dasenergi:

“Blessed are the weird people — poets, misfits, writers, mystics, painters, troubadours — for the teach us to see the world through different eyes.” Jacob Nordby

The first half is me. I haven’t progressed to the second half yet.

"You’re always you, and that don’t change, and you’re always changing, and there’s nothing you can do about it."

Neil Gaiman, “The Graveyard Book”